The dream wedding,so call.

So its less than 5 months away,Ive got things listed nicely but dammit not all been done accordingly.So the caterer,bridal,MUA,photographer has been book.Big things settled but the rest?Not quite.

Oh screw me.
Being having partially me Malay,and the non-Malay mom trying to impress her other half's family wanting everything to follow 'Malay' traditions.Meaning big banquet,super remeh temeh stuffs involves.Well,not a problem at all on my side.Its just that honestly,I think she's asking too much without realizing how tiny my pocket is.I am trying my best not to bug the fiancee to pay for everything tho I know he can afford more than that.If only we can do it like those ang moh's style..Some romantic ceremony that involves close family and friends.In a small garden or pool side.Where Im sure the cost wont be exceed even RM10k (my non muslim cuzie did her beautiful ROHM party at some resort's pool side with 150 guests and BBQ food,cost her only around RM7k plus ,man!).So u know...Like they always said,less is definitely more!

And how much my so call 'Vintage DIY' wedding is now just a dream.(cries blood)
Mom decide to go all 'Melayu-ish' with ghazal and stuffs.
Traditional Malay foods.
All must wear Malay traditional attire.
No dress.
No merepek vintage style or polka dot invites.
No bridesmaids in cute dress,only pengapit in baju kurung.
And no crap DIY wedding favor,only expensive looking bunga telur and nasi berkat.(she goes "What patterned candles?salt and peppers shakers?coaster?!Are you outta your mind?!!We're Melayu okay?"-yet shes saying tht in her nyoya English!)
Oh my,I love my mom!
(doa kuat2; Ya Allah,jauhkan lah aku dari menjadi seorang anak yg derhaka)

And being my right hand,my sister who's 5 months pregger now,I patah kaki.
And the fiancee so far away.
Oh gosh.

Fine,let the time decide that.I'm just gonna go with the flow then.
Ape nak jadi,jadilah.
What I know once he said the akad and everythgs done,Im gonbe waking up in the morning in that beary arms.
My prince not so charming who will protect me from orang jahat! :)

So just to share,my real dream Vintage garden wedding seems to be a reality to this lucky ass bride.
So beautiful!

I want her dress,her hair,her hand bouquet,everything on her and of course everythgs there!
Check out the rest of her story here;
http://greenweddingshoes.com/real-wedding-kelli-sams-vintage-garden-wedding/
And dunt forget to check their video also at the end of the post!I cried okayh!

And this is another video.The couple had their wedding few years back,tho'.Tho the video quality was not that va-va-voom,but enugh to give u that tears of joys watching it :).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5FcNcamoFU&noredirect=1

Ok,gotta go.Till next potpetpotpet.

<3,
Your emotionally not so okay bridezilla craving for big cups of Tutti Fruitti,
Iezan.