Tuesday, February 21, 2012

The dream wedding,so call.

So its less than 5 months away,Ive got things listed nicely but dammit not all been done accordingly.So the caterer,bridal,MUA,photographer has been book.Big things settled but the rest?Not quite.

Oh screw me.
Being having partially me Malay,and the non-Malay mom trying to impress her other half's family wanting everything to follow 'Malay' traditions.Meaning big banquet,super remeh temeh stuffs involves.Well,not a problem at all on my side.Its just that honestly,I think she's asking too much without realizing how tiny my pocket is.I am trying my best not to bug the fiancee to pay for everything tho I know he can afford more than that.If only we can do it like those ang moh's style..Some romantic ceremony that involves close family and friends.In a small garden or pool side.Where Im sure the cost wont be exceed even RM10k (my non muslim cuzie did her beautiful ROHM party at some resort's pool side with 150 guests and BBQ food,cost her only around RM7k plus ,man!).So u know...Like they always said,less is definitely more!

And how much my so call 'Vintage DIY' wedding is now just a dream.(cries blood)
Mom decide to go all 'Melayu-ish' with ghazal and stuffs.
Traditional Malay foods.
All must wear Malay traditional attire.
No dress.
No merepek vintage style or polka dot invites.
No bridesmaids in cute dress,only pengapit in baju kurung.
And no crap DIY wedding favor,only expensive looking bunga telur and nasi berkat.(she goes "What patterned candles?salt and peppers shakers?coaster?!Are you outta your mind?!!We're Melayu okay?"-yet shes saying tht in her nyoya English!)
Oh my,I love my mom!
(doa kuat2; Ya Allah,jauhkan lah aku dari menjadi seorang anak yg derhaka)

And being my right hand,my sister who's 5 months pregger now,I patah kaki.
And the fiancee so far away.
Oh gosh.

Fine,let the time decide that.I'm just gonna go with the flow then.
Ape nak jadi,jadilah.
What I know once he said the akad and everythgs done,Im gonbe waking up in the morning in that beary arms.
My prince not so charming who will protect me from orang jahat! :)

So just to share,my real dream Vintage garden wedding seems to be a reality to this lucky ass bride.
So beautiful!
I want her dress,her hair,her hand bouquet,everything on her and of course everythgs there!
Check out the rest of her story here;
http://greenweddingshoes.com/real-wedding-kelli-sams-vintage-garden-wedding/
And dunt forget to check their video also at the end of the post!I cried okayh!

And this is another video.The couple had their wedding few years back,tho'.Tho the video quality was not that va-va-voom,but enugh to give u that tears of joys watching it :).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=I5FcNcamoFU&noredirect=1

Ok,gotta go.Till next potpetpotpet.

<3,
Your emotionally not so okay bridezilla craving for big cups of Tutti Fruitti,
Iezan.

Monday, February 20, 2012

Bride's Reception

Date : 1st July 2012



Time : 11 am to 4 pm



Venue : Community hall,Jln Undan,Tmn Perling JB (all paid)



Theme :Off white as base with pastel flowers of peach,pink,purple and light green.



Printing Supplier : RnE Solutions Larkin-done.
Banner : Ady. TBA

Front Liners

Kompang : Done by Ayah.
Bunga Manggar : Done by mak (DIY)
Usherer : Cik Tuah & Wife

Main man(s)

Maid of Honour : BFF Lissy
Flower girl : Fieza Aziz accompany by nephew Naufal
Best Man : Fazly, Shakir's BIL
O.Bridal : NFL Bridal -Done
O.Photographer : MyCuteMoments.Com
O.Caterer : Uncle Sam from Sam Catering
Meja Beradap & VIP dishes : Bride's Aunties.


Attires

Bride's attire :
     *Dress:NFL Bridal 

     *Wedding Shoes : BFF Nadya Radzy's  Neva Deep purple peep toes.
     *MUA :NFL Bridal
     *Hand bouquet : Brooch Hand Bouquet, BFF Nadya Radzy's.

Bridegroom's attire :
     *NFL Bridals

   * Shoes : Shakir's own


MOH attire : BFF Lissy's own
BM attire : Fazly, Shakir's BIL own
(both will be in pink attire)


Family attire :
  *Bride side : Pink -all done
  *Bridegroom side :maroon



Wedding Cake 

 Pearl Cakes Events & Nurainie TAn courtesy of BFF Raziyan


Wedding Favors 

 ( Person in charge sis Ieda) 

*For all guests :   Sugar Cookies in jar with sticker labels in a pouch.
                                     All done.
                                      
*Wedding favor for VIPs : (100 pcs almost done, saperated bagged.- Bread spread in a jar and bekas    telur)


Hall's Deco

*Pelamin,aisle panels,red carpet,arch,meja makan beradap : NFL Bridal
*Bunga Pahar : Bekas telur 100 pcs done (to be reserve for Vips) will be done by sis Ieda once pengantin turun from pelamin,assist by Fieza Aziz.
*Table and chairs : Rent from MBJBT's. 
                                              -20pcs 8 seated round table for inside hall.
                                              -10 pcs 8 seated square tables for buffet, canopys.
*Table and chairs cover : Done. 
                  - Outside 2 canopys rent from BIL Ujang's fren RM300.
                  - Chairs covers rent from Mak's fren- 160pcs RM160.
                  - Table cloth (20 pcs for round tables inside the hall)DIY by mak, for outside canopy's square tables rent from Mak's fren- RM100 for 
                    10 pcs.
*Table center piece flowersHanaya Jie Flora

Candy Bar
Candys with Guest book all done.

Photo booth
TBA


Emcee 
En.Zamani Booking done.

Entertainment 
Acoustic performance by lil bro's band. - 5 songs during the makan beradap time onwards.